Are you those guys who asked me why girls usually choose a bad boy instead of opting for a nice and calm partner who would treat her right? I’ve come up with reasonable reasons this happens.. Lets roll..
12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys:
1. Nice guys are just too nice. They are busy being nice instead of being real, and women don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to hurt a fly.
2. They often expect women to just know how they feel and don’t have the guts to say what they really think. Nice guys complain girls use them but they’re too scared to actually say something and let her know where they stand and what they expect.
3. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. Women are not attracted to guys who they don’t respect.
4. Most Nice Guys are Predictable. Girls are attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable.
5. Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. **Hehe.. Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them.
6. Most shy guys have low self-esteem
7. Fear of commitment. If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s really scary.
8. They’re terrible in bed. They worked so hard to get laid only to end up not knowing what to do. They don’t have the experience or confidence to make a woman feel s*xually fulfilled and satisfied.Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed.
9. Bad guys are Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who is not hot? They probably wouldn’t be able to get away with the bad stuffs they did if they didn’t look so good.
10. Nice guys agree with everything. A guy who agrees with everything, never has an opinion, and lets people treat them anyhow they want isn’t attractive. Someone with their own distinct personality who isn’t afraid of voicing his opinion is going to attract more women than just pretending like he’s cool with everything.
11. Nice guys don’t always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go.
12. Protection. Even the most independent and self-sufficient woman wants to be with someone who, at the end of the day, makes her feel safe to be with. Women want someone who can protect them if they need it. A girl want to know if her boyfriend is going to be there to help her out if some guy is talking shit to her.
You Guys should note this: Just because a woman doesn’t want to date a nice guy, doesn’t mean she only dates bad guys. A girl wants someone who is willing to correct her when She goes wrong and someone who is confident.
Guys, all I’m trying to say is that you should Love and care for your girlfriend but don’t to let her walk all over you.