We all want our first dates to be perfect. But do you really how to impress a girl on a date without overdoing it? Here are 8 tips for first dates that every man should know to have a successful first date.
When you hook up on a first date with a gorgeous girl, it is understandable that you want to go all out and please her, maybe by showing her that you’re manly and in command, or by behaving like a doormat.
But there may be a few things that could be overdone and you might just blow any opportunity of getting to the next date.
The Huggable Understanding Guy tells you where to draw the line between doing the right things, and overdoing them. Here are some tips for first dates that can help you make the difference.
Tips for first dates #1 ARE YOU IN CONTROL?
It’s important to be in control and make those tough decisions, like calling the waiter, deciding where to go, etc. when you’re with your date.
It’s not easy when you get all groggy and drool while staring at this beautiful woman beside you.
But there may be times when your behavior borders rudeness and arrogance. Swearing, snapping your fingers to call waiters and bad behavior is just unacceptable. So if you want to hold on to the hope of getting a second date, then learn to be courteous and gentle, not just with her, but with everyone around.
Tips for first dates#2 TRYING TOO HARD
You may have waited since you were in first grade before the both of you got together for this date. You may have marked this moment in your secret diary and stored it as one of the best moments of your life. But you know what? She doesn’t have to know that!
She’s still contemplating and figuring if she’s having a good date. Don’t ruin the moment by droning on about how happy you are.
She knows that you’re happy, but don’t blow it all out, all through the date. Make her wonder if you’re having a great time. Don’t give in to the chase even before it begins!
Tips for first dates#3 DON’T SHOW OFF YOUR INDEPENDENCE
You love hanging out and bonding with your guy friends, and every Friday in your calendar might be allotted for hanging out with the boys. But saying that out aloud on your first date could actually turn out bad for you.
You might think that it shows your independence and confidence, and that you also respect her space and are not going to be a clingy boyfriend, but it actually works otherwise. She might think that your life is just too rigid.
Or worse, it may seem like you’re trying to set boundary rules even before both of you get steady. It’s almost like you’re already imposing a rule on her. What did you think, that she would like it?!
Always remember these simple tips for first dates, and also these tips on the things you should never do on a first date to make sure you leave a lasting impression on your first date.