Want to know the real difference that girls see in a s*xy guy and a bore? Find out what turns a girl on s*xually and otherwise with these 25 tips. By Jessica Dawson
Most guys think they’re great guys.
And somewhere along the way, they start to date girls.
Along the way, they find themselves losing the best girls to another guy.
[Read: How to steal a guy’s girlfriend]
Or a great girl walks out of the relationship, simply because the guy wasn’t good enough.
Now most guys are not losers.
But they fail when it comes to understanding what turns a woman on and what keeps them buzzed.
If you want to impress a girl and turn on her interest in you whether it’s your first conversation or the tenth, there are a few things you should know and follow.
What turns a girl on more than anything else?
If you want to know what turns a girl on, you need to understand these 25 tips and use them in your daily life.
You may think you have it all already, or some traits may seem like a lot of effort.
But these are the traits that can make the real difference in your life when it comes to making any girl you want desire you back.
Read these 15 traits that girls like at first sight when they see a guy, and the 10 traits that count when you’re in bed with the woman of your dreams, and you’ll know what it takes to turn any girl on with your behavior and your class act in bed.
15 things that turn a girl on about a guy
When you’re introduced to a girl or when you walk past her on the streets, you have to remember that she’ll judge you and build an opinion about you within the first few seconds.
Want to turn her on and make her fall for you immediately? Use these 15 suggestions.
#1 Dress really well. Dress like a million bucks. Improve your wardrobe and dress in clothing that enhance your assets. Girls are immediately attracted to a guy who looks good in the clothes he wears. [Read: What girls always notice in a guy on a date]
#2 Your confidence. Confidence is a huge turn on for any girl. Not cockiness, but confidence. Don’t be nervous or reveal your awkwardness when you’re around a girl and she’ll love your company.
#3 A guy who can pursue her and make her feel special. This is rather important. Girls love to be pursued and wooed by a man. Giving her a good chase when she teases you is the best way to let her know how much you want her and appreciate her. [Read: Why should guys chase a girl to impress her?]
#4 A man she’s proud to be with. Are you proud of yourself and your achievements? If you are, there’s a good chance that the girl you like will like you back too. A great girl wants to be with man who feels like an achiever because that’ll set this guy apart from the rest.
#5 A man who’s in control of his life. Are you certain about the goals in your life? Do you have a well settled job and a balanced life? Women like being in the arms of a man who’s in control of his life and his finances.
#6 Your ego matters. While an unnecessary outburst of your egoistic self can be a huge turn off, girls still appreciate a man who respects himself. Avoid getting tossed around by other men, even if they’re your friends.
#7 Your sweet and caring side. Girls love a masculine man who’s got a soft side in him. As macho as you may seem all the time, reveal a soft and comforting side to a girl when she’s trying to warm up to you. [Read: How to think like a woman and get any girl to like you]
#8 The alpha male. All girls are drawn to an alpha male. He’s the leader of the pack and a guy who’s always in control of the situation. If you want the best girl in a group of girls, you have to be the best guy around too, don’t you think?
#9 Your passion for life. Are you driven and motivated to achieve your dreams? Or are you a carefree guy who lives for the day? As much as girls may like a whimsical guy, they still prefer a guy who’s got passion and dreams burning in his eyes.
#10 Wit and charm. Be a cheerful guy who knows how to be smart at the right time. You don’t need to be a clown to be witty, you just need to be sharp and clever. [Read: How to date a girl by being a funny guy]
#11 Pay attention to her and her needs. A girl would want to be with a guy who can make her feel special and loved. Pay attention to a girl’s needs when she’s with you, and she’ll warm up to you faster than you think.
#12 A chivalrous man. Behave like a knight in shining armor and treat her like a princess when you’re with a girl you like. Learning the art of chivalry alone can take you deep into a girl’s heart. [Read: How to be chivalrous with a girl]
#13 A man she feels safe with. Be protective of a girl when she’s with you. It doesn’t matter if she’s your girlfriend or just a friend. Always focus on the girl’s safety and wants before you worry about your own.
#14 A man with wealth. Not many girls would accept this, but let’s face it. A bit of money can make a huge difference in the way you can pamper a girl. [Read: How to be successful in life]
#15 Don’t be a pushover. Don’t ever let anyone take you for granted, not even the girl you like. Demand the respect that you deserve from your family and your colleagues. Don’t let anyone make you feel less like a man, and avoid any friends who take pleasure in having a laugh at your expense. It’ll only hurt your ego and your self esteem.
What turns a girl on s*xually about a guy?
When it comes to bedroom games, there are a few things that matter more to women than these ten tips. Want to know what turns a girl on in bed more than anything else? [Read: 10 tips to increase your s*x appeal]
#1 A s*x god. Work out and look good naked. It’s the easiest way to arouse any girl and turn her on. Get yourself a six pack and a body to die for, and you’ll have your work in bed cut out for you.
#2 A guy who knows to use his tongue. Most guys want a good blowjob but aren’t really interested in reciprocating the favor. Learn to work your tongue around her pleasure spots and you’ll make her moan louder. [Read: How to sound s*xy in bed]
#3 A guy who can take his time. Don’t rush into the act of penetration. For a guy, it’s all about driving the car into the garage. But women love a long drive first. Take your time and penetrate her only when she can’t wait any longer.
#4 A guy who isn’t selfish. Don’t finish yourself off first. If you feel like you can’t hold on, warn her a few minutes ahead so she can climax with you.
#5 A guy who’s knowledgeable. Sex is an art that needs constant exploring. No one ever knows enough, and what works for one person may not work for someone else. Be aware of what girls like in bed and the unique things you can do to please them. [Read: Top 50 kinky ideas to try in bed]
#6 A guy who smells manly. Focus on your hygiene before you get into the sack with a girl. Have a shower if you’ve had a long day and use a good cologne that enhances the manly natural fragrances of your body.
#7 A guy who knows how to touch her. Caress her and linger on her sensitive spots. Stroke a girl gently with delicate touches and let your hands wander all over her before reaching out to the more prominent places. She’ll love the sensation.
#8 A man who can dominate her. Men like being in control in bed, and women don’t mind that as long as you allow her to hold the reins when she feels like it. But when you’re making love, don’t always play it safe and easy. Sometimes, a decent bit of pain can arouse the s*xual sensation a lot more for both of you. Hold her hair, pull her close, bite her and take her hard. She’ll definitely like it.
#9 A man who keeps s*x interesting and exciting. Learn a few new tricks in bed and be prepared to try it. You don’t always need to start and end s*x in bed. Get innovative and unique and she’ll love you for it. [Read: 7 s*xiest places to have s*x]
#10 A guy who’s desired by other girls. If a few girls find you s*xy and desirable, you can bet that many other girls will follow their lead too. Please a girl with your personality and your charm, and perhaps even in bed, and other girls will fight for your attention.